Marriage
Marriage under the weight of ministry, work, and honesty. 4 articles.
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July 28, 2026 · Second Fiddle
My Real Weekly Schedule as a Bi-Vocational Pastor
Not the ideal version. The real one. A bi-vocational pastor schedule after twenty-five years, what it makes possible, and the three things it protects.
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July 6, 2026 · Second Fiddle
Before You Say Yes: Why Spouse Alignment Is Non-Negotiable
A ministry marriage can carry a heavy calling, but only if both of you chose it. Why to wait until you're aligned, and what the spouse has permission to say.
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March 10, 2026 · Giving Account
Giving Account in Marriage
Accountability in marriage doesn't mean making your wife your monitor. It means owning your own load and telling her the truth before she has to find it.
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November 7, 2025 · Second Fiddle
Counting the Cost: Five Things Bi-Vocational Ministry Will Ask of You
The cost of bi-vocational ministry is real: time, career, family, body, and heart. Name all five honestly before you say yes, then say yes fully.